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| AASPBY |
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rawkalways wrote: I hope you don't think this to be cliche or to come off as a people pleaser, but I love you, even tho I do not agree with you and I harldy even know you. also I gather from reading most of these posts that you'll didn't let other people decide for you, thats pretty important with everything. and lasty, whatever your orientation, I don't think you should define yourself by your sexuality, thats not what we live for.
Exactly.
Oh God...So the other night I had this dream and I told my friends about it over Myspace and I had to copy and paste it into another message. Apparently I left on the paste button and my dad found it. I went back and read it...thank God I didn't say anything that would have come from my conscience mind. Well, there was one part...but you can't always control how you feel or what you do in dreams. Gah...I thought I had copied something else since that. I'm going to die. |
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| maddy |
| Posted: Thu Jun 28, 2007 2:47 am |
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| It will be ok AASBPY, it might turn out ok, hey, maybe your dad used to like guys too, HA, and he is just too chicken to admit it, just imagine how he would feel if you found out that! |
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| Fabler |
| Posted: Thu Jun 28, 2007 10:46 am |
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| Ok might I add, thats just twisted maddy:P |
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| maddy |
| Posted: Thu Jun 28, 2007 1:54 pm |
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| I'm just trying to think positive, and hey, i am twisted, today mum said something i think she walked past a nice top in the shops and said "hey thats a nice top" and i said "you're a nice top" then im like "hmm.. that didnt make sense" and mum said, "you never make sense" and walked away |
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| darrylsansalone |
| Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 1:16 am |
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wow, thank god for all you brave people.
rawk, that's a very nice thing you said back there. you cannot accept what you don't understand, but you can love everyone.
again, i say there are some awesome people on ibabble.
maddy you stay true to yourself even tho you are still deciding.
personally i am chaste, and it is all good with me. not so much for the masses-but well i could give two shits what others think. |
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| maddy |
| Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 2:55 am |
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| I don't think that people should have to say I'm gay, I'm straight, I'm bi, etc, can't we just love people, regardless of what sex they are? That's what I'm like, is there anything wrong with that? |
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| gleba |
| Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 3:32 am |
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^ Exactly!
I was like too scared to post on here before because I didn't really want people to know in case they went weird with me but yeah.
And I am soooo going to regret posting this tomorrow. I'm drunk, thats the only reason I'm posting.
I did read this thread but never posted. I hope everyone in this thread is happy and alright. I just came out to someone tonight. I hate doing it and only do it when I'm drunk.
Oh well, eh? It was gonna come out - (heh) - anyway. |
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| maddy |
| Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 3:34 am |
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I didn't want to come out on here, but if someone i know finds it, good on them, I thought i would regret it, but i didnt, you know, alot of things i think i will regret, i don't, maybe i should tell my mum? ahh, i still can't do it.
Don't think i'll tell her that my first kiss was taken by a girl either... |
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| gleba |
| Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 3:51 am |
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Lol! Why would you? Don't worry.
I'm sure everyone's parents must know anyway. Or at least have some idea. |
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| darrylsansalone |
| Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 9:27 am |
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| yeah gleba! i think you should tell your mum maddy! what's the downside? i'm sorry, i just don't see any point in floundering on the atoll! (hmmm....floundering on the atoll?) *writes down floundering on the atoll!* |
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| darrylsansalone |
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| yeah gleba! i think you should tell your mum maddy! what's the downside? i'm sorry, i just don't see any point in floundering on the atoll! (hmmm....floundering on the atoll?) *writes down floundering on the atoll!* |
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| maddy |
| Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 12:42 pm |
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Quote: I'm sure everyone's parents must know anyway. Or at least have some idea.
Actually I don't think she does, because, everyone who knows me and I have told were really surprised and said they would NEVER have guessed it.
Quote: i think you should tell your mum maddy!
hmm, maybe i'll wait |
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| gleba |
| Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 4:44 pm |
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maddy wrote: hmm, maybe i'll wait
Yeah, there's no need to rush things. |
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| maddy |
| Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 9:23 am |
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| Yeah... might just wait till i know if I'm sure at least 90%, which may take a while |
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| AASPBY |
| Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 9:30 am |
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No reason to tell anyone until you are comfortable.
I personally don't want any more than the 5 that know, know about me.
Although, apparently I'm obvious. So oh well. |
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| maddy |
| Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 1:38 pm |
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| I'm glad people don't think I'm obvious |
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| darrylsansalone |
| Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 2:29 pm |
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| ???? obvious???? i must be new fashioned or something. or at least i look past the 'obvious' to the soul. |
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| albin0_rainb0w |
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| I'm gay in san francisco, so, naturally it was pretty easy to come out here. Actually, in terms of coming out to my parents, I was in the car and my mom just asked me if I was gay when i was 13 years old, so I guess it was pretty obvious from when i was younger. But uh, yeah. I'm lucky to be in an accepting house hold and an accepting area. This last year I was stationed in Salt Lake City, and that was a completely different setting... eh... |
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| maddy |
| Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 1:31 pm |
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| is it just me or are there alot of gays/lesbians/bi people on this forum thinggy? or maybe everyone feels more comfortable to come out here? wither way, its awesome |
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| come-again23 |
| Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 1:50 pm |
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| its always more comfortable to say things personal on this sort of place because no one would find out and well the poeple you know here are people you dont really see in real life so yeh its easier. i've said things ont his forum i havnt told anyone else |
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| Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 1:51 pm |
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| its always more comfortable to say things personal on this sort of place because no one would find out and well the poeple you know here are people you dont really see in real life so yeh its easier. i've said things ont his forum i havnt told anyone else |
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| maddy |
| Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 10:47 am |
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| well, i've said these things to other people, but not like to everyone, just to a few personal friends, so its good, you can let it out i guess, i have alot to let out |
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| come-again23 |
| Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 7:00 pm |
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feel free maddy, we're always here  |
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| Princess_Zelda |
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come-again23 wrote: its always more comfortable to say things personal on this sort of place because no one would find out and well the poeple you know here are people you dont really see in real life so yeh its easier. i've said things ont his forum i havnt told anyone else
Oh yah I've said everything to forum friends more than in real life.. |
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| Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 9:34 am |
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come-again23 wrote: feel free maddy, we're always here
thanks  i have a lot of...errr... problems |
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| maddy |
| Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 6:54 am |
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| i did it! i told my mum! are you proud? |
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| gleba |
| Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 3:20 pm |
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| Bloody hell. You're brave. Did she react well? |
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| Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 3:22 pm |
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| yeah, it went well, i thought she would be good about it, still doesn't make it easy though |
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| Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 3:24 pm |
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maddy wrote: yeah, it went well, i thought she would be good about it, still doesn't make it easy though
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| Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 3:24 pm |
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| ^ Ditto |
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